Wednesday, July 29, 2009

You Got It!

Yesterday, I saw this little treasure posted on Craig's List. It has a light underneath that lights up the work area (for tracing, etc) and a light on top, plus lots of storage. It was cheap and located in New Holland, so I emailed about it, and the guy called me and said it was still available. Here he goes to Petra and knew my sister (who's on staff there), and when Shawn went to get it, it was a guy he knew from high school who knew his sister Missy. It is a small world!

Joshua loves his new desk. I thought he would. It's bigger than it looks in this picture (as we found out when Shawn went to pick it up and we fit it into our office!). There's lots of storage for crayons and markers, and it's the perfect size for him. Oh, how I hope he enjoys it! I love "good stuff cheap."

Another funny Bean story that I had to share. This morning, Joshua asked for "peanut butter bread with white butter" (he gets butter and peanut butter confused). I said to him "YOU GOT IT!" and he got very upset. He shouted back at me "No, I don't got it! You got it! I want it!" Haaaa!!! I tried to explain to him that "you got it" is like saying "okay" or agreeing. He didn't get it. He didn't "got it" and he wanted it! Haaa!!! I tried all morning to keep using the expression, but he kept getting more upset so I let it go. He then asked to take a nap, and he's sleeping now (it's 9:30 am).

I've been working with Joshua on learning his date of birth. He came into our room this morning, climbed up in our bed, and said to me "my birthday is September 18." Yes, yes it is! He told Daddy, too. :) :) :) He tells me Caleb is 1 and Joshua is 2. Soon, though, he'll be three. But, he can't hold up three fingers altogehter without letting the fourth pop up. :)

Last night, Caleb went to Bible study with me and he did well the whole time in the nursery. Yeah! He now says "more," "quack," "book," and "up." He jabbers a lot more than that, but those are the distinguishable words. His favorite food is blueberries, but they don't agree with him... enough said. He's definitely not a morning person and usually takes awhile to get half-happy in the morning (the opposite of the Bean). He's loving books these days and thoroughly enjoys being read to, but he also enjoys turning the pages back and forth. I'm taking him to the pediatrician later this morning. Yesterday he started rolling his eyes into the back of his head. I called the doctor concerned, and they said that they should take a look just to be safe. Please keep both boys in your prayers!

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Help, Health & Hope

Yesterday my mom offered for us to go to her house so she could help with the boys after my second surgery. She had also brought us some food over the weekend (God bless her!) that we had eaten gratefully. We enjoyed our morning there and the boys took a long nap when we got home. Then last night my friend Becca came with a meal for us - it was great! When Shawn got home, dinner was ready to eat. I was in sooo much pain yesterday. Maybe it was the barometric pressure? The only reason I say that is because after dinner, we went outside to get some fresh air. Shawn & the boys were playing soccer and I was relaxing on the lounge chair. I thought "maybe a walk will help my circulation and ease the pressure that I feel building in my leg." So, I begged Shawn to take a quick walk around the neighborhood with me (not something he enjoys). We put Caleb in the stroller and let Joshua walk, and we started down the street. We no more than walked the first block, and we felt a drip come down from the sunny skies. Could it have been what we thought it was? No... Only, heaven didn't agree with us. Within seconds, the skies opened up and let loose. We were drenched. Joshua started to sing, and we laughed. He sang "I'm so blue-hoo-hoo, blue-hoo-hoo, blue-hoo-hoo, blue, I'm so blue I don't know what to do." We giggled and giggled. I couldn't run (honestly, I could barely even walk!), so we just enjoyed the shower and listened as Joshua sang and then would talk about God playing the drums with the thunder. We all dried off when we got in the door, and the boys got ready for bed. I rocked Caleb to sleep and then tucked in the Bean. I love night time!
This morning Nonie picked up the boys for a day at her house. After they left, I headed for my follow-up ultrasound for my left leg. The ultrasound gal said that my left leg looked good, and also told me that the pain I'm experiencing in my right leg could actually be a good thing. The thrombis (or blood clot) that's so sore and causing the inflammation could be a sign that the vein is clotting off and may go away on its own. She said only time will tell, but it gave me hope. And it reminded me of two Bible verses in my homework this week. Psalm 126:5-6 "Those who sow in tears will reap with songs of joy. He who goes out weeping, carrying seed to sow, will return with songs of joy, carrying sheaves with him." Please pray that this pain isn't for nothing - that my vein is healing and going away and that this clot is a good thing!!!

While I was looking forward to a "day off" to get some rest, etc. I'm really missing my boys today. But, I'm glad they're having fun. Joshua was looking forward to seeing Nonie today and could barely contain his excitement. She also brought us a lasagna to eat for dinner tonight, which was so sweet. I'm so thankful for the help, the meals, etc. We are blessed.

Sunday, July 26, 2009

It's 3 am I must be lonely...

The title of my post was the title of a song by Matchbox 20 when I was in school. In reality, it's 3:30 am right now. And I'm not lonely, but I am suffering from a bit of insomnia. Actually, truth be known, I'm suffering from a stomach ache that is keeping me awake. Medication? (I don't think so. I did at first, but I didn't experience this last time and it's all the same stuff.) All that take-out we've eaten over the last week? (Maybe. To do over again, I would have stocked our freezer with meals like I did before I had my c-section with Caleb. But, since we were in Florida and we needed the fridge space for Caleb's party thereafter right before my first surgery, I hadn't even gone grocery shopping in awhile. Then I couldn't move to go out or cook really and didn't really want Daddy gone after work since I was ready for help with the boys. So, greasy take-out became a staple...not great for our wallet or our waste. But, that said, the stomach ache has been since the last surgery, and not in between...hmmm). A stomach bug? (I'm praying not! God knows I have enough going on right now....WE have enough going on right now, I should say.) That said, anything in this post may or may not sound coherent based on the time of day. But, I'd rather not waste the time doing nothing when I haven't posted in awhile and the boys are all in bed.I had my second surgery this past Friday. As I wrote in an email to my mother-in-law: "It went much better...well, I went in there with a long list of questions since my last one wasn't so hot, and that earned me the complete knock out. :) :) :) So, I was under and didn't feel a thing, other than the nurse sticking me four times 'til she found a painful spot for my IV.

The anestesiologist (sp?) said that when you have bad veins in your legs, that can mean that you can have vein issues everywhere, which is probably the case with me. But, they told me last time that I have an extremely healthy heart - great blood pressure and my heart beats less than others, which means that I'll have more beats left at the end of life (which won't mean a thing if something happens to another organ or my mind - haaaa!!!).

The doctor told me that I have phlebitis in the right leg, and once that calms down, it should start feeling better. He also said we'd re-evaluate at my next appointment to see if we should have another surgery to completely remove that vein. I'm hoping it just calms down on its own. He also said that the bleeding I experienced is NOT normal, but it didn't cause significant problems for me. He also said that I shouldn't have been told not to take my pain meds since I just had surgery and am healthy as a horse (my expression, not his). He said it wouldn't have harmed me, even though that's typically not the procedure. I thought "where were you last week when I was dying in pain?" Haaa!!! He had lots of good answers for my questions, so I felt more at ease today. Now I'm praying this inflammation and blood clot go away so that I feel better in my right leg! The drugs are defintely helping, too, so all in all it's been good. I know Shawn's exhausted from caring for the boys all day. Keep him in your prayers, too! And the boys!"


Tonight we went to church for the first time in a few weeks. I needed to get out of the house - I'm going stir crazy. Unfortunately, I didn't really get much out of it (have you ever heard a sermon that says "Feeling down? Running from God?" and your response is the same as it is to those questions drug commercials ask "Umm, nope, not really!" My legs felt swollen and ungodly painful and at one point I looked down at my arms, which are completely bruised with needle marks everywhere from where they tried to get my IV in. I told Shawn afterward that the people sitting next to us probably thought I was a druggy in dire need of church. Oh, I look afright!Thankfully, our marriage isn't based on our day-to-day looks (more the overall trend...just kidding!!!). Shawn has been amazing with the boys. He's such a great dad! And a great husband! I'm so very blessed. This has been a rough couple weeks since my first surgery. I really thought the first one would go more like the second did. But, as the surgeon explained, my tissue and veins are really inflamed in my right leg, which is causing an ungodly amount of pain. I feel like I can barely move. I'm not supposed to stand or sit for long periods of time (ummm...what else is there?). It's right at a spot where the boys hit into it a lot, too, so I'm extra cautious. These poor boys! It's finally nice out and their momma is out of commission! I notice, though, as Shawn is in pain from various injuries, he just keeps going. He doesn't let pain stop him (although the doc said pain can be our friend, telling us what we need to know so we should listen to it). I think, though, it's time that I get back up and running. Our house needs it! Our boys need it! Shawn needs it (whether or not he'd admit it)!
As I said, this post may be random. Right now I'm listening to two songs that were in my head. The first I heard on the radio the other day in the lunch hour "flashback" or whatever they call the old songs...the term has escaped my mind. Anyway, I remembered this Caedmon's Call song "This World," and I loved it. The lyrics include "This world has nothing for me and this world has everything. All that I could wanted and nothing that I need." My sister Jen got Caleb the Veggie Tales movie "Madame Blueberry" for his birthday, and Joshua has begged to watch it. In it, this blueberry is blue because she wants more stuff, and finally she gets to go to "Stuff-Mart" and buy everything (and more!) from her wish list but it doesn't bring her happiness. Her pursuit for more ends up destroying her house, literally. But, she finds that a thankful heart is a happy heart in the end. The Bean loves it, and it is such a good reminder for me, too. I am so thankful for our house, our cars, our stuff, but more importantly the people that surround me and a God that is good even when I'm not.The second song is a Bebo Norman song that they played at Bible study on Tuesday night. Right now we're studying the Psalms of Ascent (which hasn't been the greatest Beth Moore study I've done, but it's always good to be diving into God's word). I thought the lyrics of "I will lift my eyes" from Psalm 121 were excellent:

God, my God, I cry out
Your beloved needs You now
God, be near, calm my fear
And take my doubt

Your kindness is what pulls me up
Your love is all that draws me in

I will lift my eyes to the Maker
Of the mountains I can't climb
I will lift my eyes to the Calmer
Of the oceans raging wild
I will lift my eyes to the Healer
Of the hurt I hold inside
I will lift my eyes, lift my eyes to You

God, my God, let Mercy sing
Her melody over me
God, right here all I bring
Is all of me

(Chorus)

On Thursday night before my second surgery, I went and got my hair cut and colored. I've been dying my own hair to save money, but in the summer the sun turns any brown I try into an ugly pumpkin orange. Coupled with the fact that I'm not supposed to be standing for a long period of time and the fact that I hit another weight loss goal (thank you, Jesus!), I called up a gal that my friend recommended. I LOVED her! She was inexpensive, QUICK (which is of utmost importance to me with the boys), and I thought it turned out well. It's a little short for me, but I asked for it. I had been growing my hair out, but I've also been feeling like I look like a housewife, constantly pulling it up and back out of my face and not taking the time I need to style it with our schedules. I needed a blow-dry-and-go-but-still-looks-stylish 'do' again, so I went back to the stacked hair that everyone I know has. I also got a few blond streaks, which turned out well. And did I mention she was fast? And cheap? It was a good experience overall.

Anyway, all that said, while my hair was processing I read a great magazine article about premature babies and how they have turned out to be extraoridnary people. It brought tears to my eyes...oh, how I just know that God has an amazing destiny for our Joshua. He had such a struggle from birth, I know he will be more than a conqueror!

I also had time to read a great article on weight loss. It was nice to just sit and read for a few minutes. God is good!I loved this picture of the boys above. They are in a little parade around the vacuum cleaner, having fun with Daddy and each other.A couple other random stories. As Joshua & I were coloring the other morning (Caleb sat with us but mostly tried to eat the crayons until I put them out of reach), Joshua said "it's the baby elephant's birthday." I wondered where he got that from...then I realized that the picture he was coloring had an elephant in a hat that looked almost identical to Caleb's first birthday hat. I love how little minds think! He also surprised me the other day when we were looking at the blog and he said "that's Joshua looking at the boats." The picture has only the Bean and a flag in the background, but he remembered that we were looking at the boats that day in that place. He is so sharp! I see impressive intelligence in our lil' Caleb Luke, too. He is learning and growing everyday. He already has mastered going up and down the stairs by himself. He gets to the top and turns around to go down backward. I was afraid he wouldn't learn how, but it didn't take him long! I have more stories to post, but I'm getting tired...or at least my legs are starting to really ache.So, I'll end this post with the picture of Caleb blowing you kisses good night!

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Smile...or Quack Up!

Yesterday, I took the boys to Picture People at Park City to get their pictures done. It was the first day I've driven since my surgery, and I was soooo sore afterward that I came home and took a vicodeine (sp?). Hopefully, it doesn't affect my next surgery. I had a coupon for free pictures that expires tomorrow, and I didn't want to miss the opportunity. Below is the one I got.I also loved the following pictures. Mom met me at the mall, and the kids got some play time in the play area by the food court. Then Joshua went back to her house from some one-on-one love while Caleb came home with me for lunch. In the afternoon while the boys napped, I kept my leg elevated above my heart and prayed that my soreness would go away. My friend Lisa came over with a meal for us last night, and I could have cried...God is so good. It tasted delicious and came on a great night when I was hurting.The boys did well, for the most part. I liked many of the pictures, and put them in the order of my favorites on this post. Caleb kept wanting to walk away from the girl, even though he was enjoying himself and Joshua wanted to step right in to take his place. He loves being photographed!Caleb started saying his second word over the weekend. Beyond the mama, dadda, and other baby babbles, Caleb distinctly says "MORE!" We can now add to that, "QUACK!" He loved the duck the boys got on Saturday and now quacks on demand. When we were at the mall playground, he went right up to the duck and said "quack quack quack!" This is a favorite for Shawn & me. We giggle each time at how cute it is!Caleb is also starting to point out pictures in books. He loves the "Kiss Good Night" book we used to read to the Bean and is starting to pick out the bear and the mouse, just like Joshua did at this age. We're also trying to teach Caleb his body parts.The boys love to play together. They are so close! Caleb tries to do everything Joshua does. Sometimes this is amusing to the Bean; other times, it can be frustrating that he has to share. They do often end up laughing with one another.Last night, Shawn said he needed caffeine, so we went to the Starbucks drive-through since we had a coupon. Joshua always asks for his "joker face" song (which to the rest of the world is known as "Poker Face") and then he starts to dance. Last night he kept telling us to watch him dance and then watch Caleb dance. It looked like a scene out of a TV commercial "dah-dah-dah." They were both bopping their heads and smiling away at the music. We giggled...then joined in.Yesterday and today have been rainy, so they haven't been able to do much outside. I think they're both restless. I'm a little tired of being in the house myself, but I'm also too sore to think of wrestling with them out and about. Hopefully soon I'll be feeling 110% better!Tomorrow is my next surgery. Please pray that the boys have fun with Grandma & Shawn over the weekend and that everything goes well!

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Oh, Happy Birthday to You...a Happy Birthday to you!

Happy 56th birthday to my mom, who is kissing an alligator in the picture below.And Happy 4th birthday to my niece, Emma!
Hope you both have a great year!

Saturday, July 18, 2009

A Quack-tacular 34-month birthday

This weekend started out somewhat disappointing since we decided not to go to Shawn's family reunion. While I think we made the right decision based on how my leg is doing, the doctor's recommendation, and Shawn being covered in poison ivy, we knew that the Bean especially was going to be disappointed that he didn't get to see his aunts, grandparents and extended family. There's always next year!
Saturday was Joshua's 34-month birthday. It's been a rough week with me having to take it more easy, not being able to get real hot, etc. so we felt like we needed to do something special for the kids, especially our restless Joshua. So, we started Saturday morning by heading to the petting zoo in Leola, about a 10-minute drive from our house. Joshua loved it! We laughed when we said to the kids "whoa, look at that colorful bird!" and he said "that's a parrot!" Haaa...he's smarter than we think he is! The parrot said hello, and the Bean said hi. Joshua told us the colors of the bunnies, saw the donkeys, the llama, was amused by the kangaroo (since we just learned the day before that they start with "K" in Caleb's new Elmo book), saw the peacock and the yack, missed the pot-belly pig who decided he'd rather lay inside his stench-filled structure, was bewildered by the turkey gobbling, and was highly excited to see "STINKY" deer. [His grandparents have a stuffed 'dinky' deer that the Bean loves when we're down in FL, and he said "look, STINKY deer!" We laughed...so true on so many levels.] His highlight was feeding the goats and feeding the ducks...who quacked and quacked their thanks.Soon it was time to go. I was feeling sore, and thankfully that place isn't all that big. So, we came home and rested for awhile. When the boys woke up, Daddy filled their little Wally-the-whale pool and both boys enjoyed standing in the water and splashing around a bit, even though it was chilly. He got them dried off and dressed when they were all done, and we headed to McDonald's on Manheim Pike for dinner. Neither of us felt up to cooking (we were both exhausted) and we had been wanting to check out the indoor playground (which was nothing to write home about). Joshua ate maybe a handful of fries, and Caleb had some chicken nuggets. A little duck was in their value meal, and both boys thought this thing was cute. When we got home, I elevated my sore legs again. Shawn was also tired and itchy from his poison ivy. He let the boys play outside for a few minutes, which was long enough that Caleb fell in our driveway and got his first ever boo-boo on his knee. Daddy took him in and changed him into his PJ's before I could get a picture. We then let the boys play in the office, and Daddy took a couple quick pictures of the Bean on his 34-month birthday.I can't believe how Joshua is growing (not that these pictures do him any justice)! His mind is developing so rapidly now. Not only can he count, tell us all the colors (even some of the trickier ones like white, etc), knows all the alphabet letters, etc, he sees along to most songs now with the actual words, and we just love to see the way he thinks about things. When he got out of the car the day that my mom helped me with the boys by taking us all to her house, he pointed and said "look, the moon." And it was! Not only was the sun shining, you could also still see the moon. He loves tractors and birds and butterflies, and he loves to see how things work. He'll really listen as we tell him things and repeat it back at different times when we're not expecting it. I also love how he gently pats Caleb's head to show him affection. Potty training is still off and on. Some days he's awesome about telling us and awesome about wanting to use the potty, and so forth. Other days, he's not really interested. It's more of a process than I thought it would be, but I think that's normal. (Since I've never done this before, I have no idea!). All in all, our Bean is growing up to be an amazing kid. Both Shawn & I feel like we can trust him, which really shows his maturity as a child. We trust that he doesn't get into things, that he's gentle with others, that he's going to behave in certain situations. We talked about this phenomenon the other day...how much Joshua is growing and both of us as parents have such a deep respect and love for him. He has definitely changed since his headbanging/screaming-fits days, and he is really turning out to be an amazing kid! We got his 33-month evaluation in the mail - once again we have a letter that says he's developing normally. God is SO GOOD! All the time! Happy 34-month birthday, my Bean! Enjoy the last few months of being two!

I Survived!

Monday, July 13, was my first leg surgery. It was actually two veins in my right leg that needed to be taken care of. So, my mom arrived at 8:30 am and Shawn took me to the Surgical Center to prep for surgery. I couldn't eat or drink anything after midnight, and the boys had kept us both up the entire night before. So, we were exhausted! But, I figured I'd be sleeping a better part of the day anyway. They called me back shortly after 9 am, and once again I was a pin cushion as they tried to look for my "deep veins." They finally found a good spot in my arm, and I was thankful! The doctor was running a little late, but I finally was taken back for surgery close to 10:30 am. They started me out on my belly and told me that I wouldn't be completely out for the surgery. However, at the first stab (I later found out that they put holes the entire way up my leg as they shot a numbing agent in with a needle), I felt the pain immediately. The anethstesiologist asked me if I was surprised and I said "No, it's not out of shock that I'm wincing, it HURTS!!!" Almost immediately I was put all but completely out. I remember them waking me to roll me over and they were putting that stuff on your legs that preps them for surgery. I smiled and said "instant tan" and everyone laughed. The next thing I remember is waking up in recovery with my compression stocking already on. They gave me two good doses of pain medication through my IV that felt wonderful, some Lornadoones and some diet gingerale and sent us on our way.

My leg still looks bad, though, and at my recent ultrasound the gal explained that I was in too much pain for them to keep going. They treated the main two veins they were in there for, but the one that looks really bad he wasn't able to get this time because I wasn't tolerating it. I was confused and hope to talk to the doctor about it - why didn't they put me out, I wonder? But, the two spots where he tried to get into that vein have puffed up like a baseball and are black (more than blue) and feel awful. So, maybe he was wise... but since Shawn already had off work and I already had babysitters, etc I wish they would have just done it all. The ultrasound tech assured me that I didn't say anything inappropriate when I was half-incoherent and in pain...haaaa!!!
When we got home after the surgery, I went right to bed and slept until 5:30 pm at which time I got up to go to the bathroom. Joshua said "Mommy has an ouchy and tried to kiss it. Then we noticed that I was bleeding like a fire hydrant - blood shooting out everywhere, all over our carpet!!! I cried over the carpet, and I called the doctor's office. The on-call doctor (not the one who did the surgery) said that I needed to immediately have Shawn run and buy some gauze and tape and in the meantime hold a towel with pressure over it. If it didn't stop bleeding in ten minutes, I was to go to the emergency room. But, he assumed it would stop and said "it's normal" to bleed "somewhat." We did get it under control, but my stocking was soaked with blood and disgusting and he told me to leave it on and wrap the gauze on top of it.
In the morning, then, I called in to hopefully speak with my actual surgeon because the gauze became bloody overnight. His nurse told me to take the stocking off to see what the wounds looked like underneath. There are only four incisions, which include the two at the top of my leg where he couldn't do the one vein. The two at the bottom were the heavy bleeders. Plus, I have small dots the whole way up where they numbed me with a needle. Anyway, I couldn't believe how small they are compared to the amount of blood that had come out! Then she told me to put the stocking back on. My mom had already started rinsing it out, and the doctor had ordered a higher compression anyway, so we tried putting the new one on. Only we couldn't. It was trying to get something the size of a gi-normously swollen leg into something that looked like it was meant as a pencil holder. We couldn't even get my toes in. Frustrated, I called the nurse back. She told me I couldn't walk without compression and I MUST get this back on. I told her that I couldn't - what did she want me to do? The conversation continued like this for awhile. I was feeling aggravated (an understatement!). Finally, I called Shawn bawling and asked him to come home and see if his muscles would do the trick. It took all three of us to get this thing on and I didn't take it off until I went for my ultrasound, where I slid it to my ankle and worked it back up afteward.
To shower before my appointment, Mom came over and wrapped my leg in a large trash bag with duct tape around it, and I stood outside our master bathroom shower and washed my hair and then 'sponge-bathed' the rest. Last night I took off my stocking overnight and showered this morning. But, I was pretty sore so I put it right back on.
They told me to stop taking any pain medication since I'm having surgery again next week...I guess things like Advil can increase your chance of bleeding and complications. I could have cried when they told me that. I haven't driven since my surgery because I don't know that I could stop quickly with my swollen, sore right leg.

But, even though I'm sore and achy, cold and numb in areas, I'm alive. And I'm praying my legs look and feel better eventually!!! Please pray for my next surgery that it goes better than the first and that my first leg would heal without an additional surgery needed!
A special thanks to...
My husband, for taking off work to be with me and putting up with my whining when I'm sore. He also comes home from after working all day and takes care of the kids and tells me to rest. He's amazing.
My mom, who watched the kids the day of my surgery, picked up my compression stocking prescription and advil the following day, rescued me on Wednesday when I called her for help with the boys - she took us all back to her house and let me nap while she played with the kids, she took me to my ultrasound on Thursday and watched the kids while I showered, etc. She'll also be here for my left leg surgery and can't imagine what I would do if I didn't have her help.
Nonie, who picked up both boys on Tuesday and watched them for the day so I could rest. It was a huge help!
My sister Jen who made us a delicious meal of mini-cheddar meatloaves and watched Joshua while I had my follow-up ultrasound, which allowed mom to focus on one roaming boy while I was being checked.
And lastly my two amazing little boys who have had to put up with their mommy moving slower than usual and not taking them outside as much (since I'm not supposed to get the leg too hot, etc). They have been sooo good through this entire ordeal.

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

It's My Party & I'll Cry If I Want To

We celebrated Caleb's first birthday with a cookout on Sunday, July 12 starting at 4:30 pm. After cleaning the house, weeding our flower beds, mowing our lawn, buying & preparing food and decorating, it was finally time for the party to begin!We invited both sides of both our families, our life group friends and my dear friend Suzanne, who unfortunately couldn't make it. It ended up being our family (Shawn, me, Joshua & Caleb), of course; my sister Jen & her husband Mike and their five kids Grace, Faith, Emma, Daniel & John; Grandma (my mom) & her husband Ken; my sister Becky & her husband Tim; Shawn's brother Brian & his two kids Grant & Jenavieve; Shawn's sister Missy & her husband Kevin; Shawn's sister Hilary; Nonie & Poppy (Shawn's dad); Shawn's sister Alicia & her son Jordon; Shawn's Grandma Good; and our lifegroup friends Becca & Angel with their kids Alayna & Kyla; Chris & Lisa with their daughter Isabella; and John & Angie with their daughters Lael & Alonna. I don't think I missed anyone!Unfortunately, Caleb was somewhat crabby that entire afternoon. First, I thought he might be hungry...So, we invited our guests to eat. Shawn was the grill-master (thank you, love!) and cooked hamburgers & hot dogs. We also served macaroni salad (thanks for your help, mom!), watermelon, a veggie tray, doritos, chips, pickles and all the fixins that go along with the burgers, etc.Eventually I got the boys something to eat and tried to scarf a little myself before getting Caleb back down, who continued to cry. :(Joshua & Daniel ate together at the picnic table.Most everyone else sat on their lawn chairs and mingled.Before long it was time to break out the cake. I had ordered both cakes at Giant, where you get a free round cake for your child's first birthday. They were marble with buttercream frosting, and we had three types of ice cream: chocolate, vanilla and 'party cake' (which Shawn picked out - and it was delicious, I might add).With the 'pleasant' breeze, the 1 candle blew out before I reached Caleb as we sang to him. That was okay, though.Unlike Joshua, who dove right in, Caleb simply put a finger in the icing and decided he didn't want any. He cried 'til we got him down, and the cake was basically in tact.I took him inside to see if I could calm him down, and he tried to go to sleep. I realized that he had taken an earlier-than-normal nap, which had been great for us in getting things done for the party (like chopping veggies) but it didn't work so great for him, who was now exhausted.I didn't let him nap because we had gifts to open, but eventually he got a second wind. I felt bad he didn't enjoy his cake (or his party, really). I also didn't get to chat much with anyone 'til the end of the night because I was walking him around. He was a momma's boy, which is okay by me (for now). :)Unforutnately, we couldn't give Bean much attention either since Daddy was grilling and I was consoling Caleb. I think our guests picked up on his need for love, though. That night after the party, he decided to come and snuggle us in bed and told us basically that he had missed us all day. He was so cute that we couldn't say no, especially with my surgery the next day.People were starting to leave, so we knew it was time to keep the party moving and started opening gifts with Caleb.He got some very cute books...and toys......money for college and more!When the party crowd had died down, Caleb actually started enjoying himself. Some of the aunts & uncles took the kids across the street to the playground, which I know Bean loved. Our life group friends with their little ones stayed and we sat in a circle and chatted while Caleb played and played and played. Soon everyone parted ways and we cleaned up outside and inside and prepared for the next day. Caleb stayed up until almost midnight - his second wind carried him way past his bedtime, and he refused to lay down. Then Joshua came into our room about an hour after Caleb finally passed out. So, we got no sleep that night, but I'm not sure how much I would have gotten anyway the night before my surgery. I love my boys. Happy 1st birthday, Caleb Luke!

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Our Bean is Da' Bomb!

Joshua never ceases to make me smile. I am always in awe of how he is growing and learning and his amazing personality. So, since I am trying to keep this blog somewhat up-to-date as a story of their life for both boys, I thought I would write about some recent happenings for the Bean.

First, I'll start out with a story that made me smile today. He asked me to help take off his shoes (even though he can do this himself) and told me he wanted "dare" feet. I told him that the expression is bare feet - b - b -bare feet. He said "Okay, I want bear feet AND my feet!" Haaaa!!!

Next, I thought Shawn's mom gave us the nicest compliment in Florida when she said how amazingly well-mannered Joshua is. She said something to the effect of him saying please and thank you and being well-behaved. Oh, how that is music to a mother's ears!

In reading "Shepherding a Child's Heart," one chapter asked "what is your goal for your child?" I had to really think about this. The book suggests the goal be that the child knows, loves and enjoys God. Obedience, good behavior and other positive things are outcomes of wanting to serve the Lord. Being good for "goodness sake" doesn't really get at the root of why we behave the way we do. I know I'm not saying it as well as the author does, but in general, my goal for Joshua is that he would WANT to be a good boy because he would want to honor his heavenly Father. If I can help lead him on a path of righteousness to be in unity with Jesus' heart, than I feel more blessed than any momma could.

Another great story I have to share: the night we got back from our trip, I was unsure about taking him to Bible study. But, I didn't want to let down my friend who was bringing her daughter. I knew Caleb was in no state to go to a play group, but I thought Joshua could handle it. I was so glad I took him! When I picked him up, the childcare worker told me that Joshua helped Isabella cheer up after her mommy left. Not only that, he also was "very social" they said and talked to all the other children and was sooo good the whole night. I didn't hear them saying those things to other parents, so I know they were telling me the truth. Again, it was neat to see his sweet personality shine through, even after a long day of travel.

Today my mom came over for a little while and watched the boys as we did some last minute grocery shopping for Caleb's party tomorrow (thanks!!!). Joshua & I have been playing a game about "what does a doggy say?" and as I say all other things like "moo, meow, quack, hee-haw, neigh, oink, whoo-whoo," etc. he'll say "no, silly, that's a cow, kitty cat, duck, donkey, horse, pig, owl," etc. Mom said how sharp he is for being two. He really does know his letters, his animals, his colors, how to count, and other things that do blow my mind. He sings along with many songs and knows the lyrics and tunes by heart. It's just amazing to see his mind expand, and I do think he's sharp (although, every mom feels like that, I'm sure!). He also cleans up after himself for the most part and is intuitive into how we feel. I could give so many examples, but I'll save those for another day.

My precious Joshua, how you have blessed your Dad & I from the moment you were born up until this evening. Your gentle spirit, your willingness to learn & to try things, your talkative personality, your sweetness to the entire family & your little friends...these things are things about you that we will always cherish. You are an amazing child! We love you!
Joshua & his friend Alayna play the piano together, both gently enjoying each other's company (and the "music")...

Oh, that Caleb Luke!

Caleb is definitely developing more personality each day! Yesterday, he stole my hairspray out of my bathroom vanity and threw it on the floor. In a firm voice, I said "Caleb, please pick it up and put it back." I was truly shocked, though, when he looked up at me, quirked an eyebrow, picked it up, put it back in the drawer and walked out. He knows exactly what we're saying!!! I demonstrated that to Shawn this morning when I asked Caleb to pick up the fridge letters he had knocked off and put them back. He did exactly that, on cue. He may not understand everything we're saying, but I think we don't give him enough credit (or probably enough discipline!). He definitely gets away with more than the Bean did at his age. And, Caleb is one sharp cookie, we can already tell. So, in addition to walking and saying a few words, Caleb is understanding what we're saying to him. He's an amazing kiddo!

When he was at the pediatrician, she noted that he was such a dear heart, smiling at her and trying to snuggle as she listened to him (then taking her stethescope and finally playing with her shoes when we put him on the ground to walk). Last night I rocked him to sleep, and he just snuggled in and started to snore on my shoulder - I could have stayed like that all night. Then this afternoon as we waited for Shawn at the store (he had to run and grab a new shovel since his broke today), I looked back at Caleb who would smile away at me and wave and then give me those little dimples with his impish look. He is sooo cute!

We're looking forward to celebrating his first birthday with him and our family and friends tomorrow. :)

My dearest Caleb, when you smile, my heart melts. How I enjoy seeing you grow, watching you walk, realizing you understand us, and snuggling with you as my little boy. Your dimples and sweet spirit have won our affections. We love that you're starting to communicate with your hands and some words. We also just love you for being our son. You are amazing and have brought such a unique dynamic to our family. As Joshua tells you everyday, "We love you, too, Caleb Luke!"

Friday, July 10, 2009

Florida Trip - July 2009

I wanted to post about our trip in order of days and altogether, so it took me a little while to get all the photos and writing done. But, alas, it's done! Enjoy!

Flyin'-to-Florida Friday

Our trip to Florida began on Friday, July 3. Shawn had the day off for Independence Day anyway, so it was one less vacation day he had to use. We had a leisurely morning, including breakfast at home, finishing up our last-minute packing and me cleaning the house and making the beds before we left (nothing feels better than coming home to an organized house, to me anyway!). We were off around 10:30ish to head to Baltimore to catch our plane. We parked in the daily garage rather than our favorite express lot since the coupon for express had expired, and we had to go up 7 "circles" (as the Bean called them) to find a space. Then we had to take a crowded bus to the airport, and Joshua was TERRIFIED! He cried and cried, and thankfully someone gave up their seat so I could sit with both boys. He begged "Please...all done bus!" And, I told him he had to be brave to get to the airport to see the airplanes (which he loves) and see Mamaw and Papaw Ginder. He soon found courage and said "I'll tell Papaw I was brave on the bus." And he did!Our flight didn't leave quite on time, and we got re-directed slightly around some weather in Tampa, FL. Eventually we arrived at Sarasota. I'm not sure why when the boys nap in the afternoon, two hours can fly by like a blink of an eye; but, those same two hours can feel far longer than an eternity on an airplane with two kids. Both of them did extremely well, but Caleb was restless and it was difficult to keep him amused to sit still.Joshua ran to greet Grandma & Grandpa when we got off the plane. He was so excited! From there we went in the rental mini-van to meet Aunt Erica at Dutch Heritage for dinner. The mennonite buffet was delicious and the gift shop was neat. And we found out that the boys were dressed in their "Gator" colors...I guess that's a sports team...haaa!!!We left there to drive to Anna Maria (sp?) Island, where we dipped our toes in the warm ocean water. The beach sand was soft, the temperature was perfect, the breeze was awesome, and everything was beautiful. We were glad to be on the ground and in Florida.And we were happy to see the family. I loved these pictures of Grandpa & Aunt Erica swinging the Bean into the ocean.It was late already, so it was time to head back to our hotel. We stayed at a "brand spankin' new" (in Erica's words) Country Inn & Suites where we got a studio with two queen beds and a living area with couch, chair, fridge and microwave. The beds were amazingly comfortable, and the breakfast they served was good. This trip I actually remembered my workout clothes, and I got to use the gym, too.We were glad that Erica was able to be off for most of our trip. I road back with her from the beach, which was a little ways away. We giggled at Papaw's slow driving (sorry, Grandpa!), especially when the Bean's in the car. After all, he has "precious" cargo.Caleb wanted so badly to get down and walk/crawl into the ocean. Maybe next year, buddy! We realized that we travel somewhere around each kiddo's birthday. Just before Joshua turned one (literally the week before), we flew down to see my Dad in Atlanta. Just before Joshua turned two (again, the weekend before), we flew down to the family in Florida. This time it was just before Caleb's birthday. Will we plan a trip before Joshua's? Who knows? We're sort of last minute people!
Thus ended Friday, our first day gone...

Happy Independence Day!

Hurray for the Red, White & Blue! That was one of Joshua's absolute favorite songs when he was a baby. There was a toy that played that tune and others and he would push the button until that one would come on and then he would let the song play as he bopped to it. Oh, I miss my baby Bean! While I'm so thankful that he's growing into an amazing little boy, I so loved his baby stage too!We woke up Saturday morning and donned our identical flag t-shirts. Bummer that we never got a picture with the four of us next to each other. Oh well!Grandma & Grandpa picked us up from the hotel and we went out to Fisherman's Village. We sat at Harpoon Harry's, one of our favorite restaurants, and watched the boats over the water. Joshua loved it, and we thought the atmosphere with the flags was so neat! Later that night, we returned to watch the fireworks over the water.Next, since it was too early to actually eat at Harpoon Harry's, we went to the restaurant at Burnt Furnace, where I ate a delicious Gyro, one of my favorites. Afterward, we stopped at Walmart where Grandpa & Grandma bought Joshua a green fun noodle, swim-floaties and a green pool ball. He was in heaven!I couldn't believe how he got right in and could swim with these floaties! After reminding him to keep his head up (and not drink the water!), he swam all by himself from Daddy to Grandpa and back and forth. He loved it! My favorite expression from this time was "I'm swimming like a fish, too!" to Grandpa.They blew up a turtle tube for Caleb to float around on. He liked it for awhile since he could splash and not have to be held, but he gets bored pretty quick.I think the best part of their pool is that it's all screened in. No bugs, no dirt, etc. That also means very little sun, though, too. I think I came back whiter than what I started!The boys did not nap that afternoon and got a little grumpy (an understatement). We tried going back to our hotel room around suppertime in a last ditch effort to get them some much-needed rest to no avail. They slept less than an hour and it was time to get ready for dinner.We went to Steak 'n Shake, which was a neat little place that reminded me of a Johnny Rockets back from the '50s. The waitress' name was also Valerie, spelled just like mine.Joshua wore his hat for a little while, but what he really liked was the cardboard car. We all ate burgers and fries (sort of like grilling for the 4th of July, only no work!) and drank milkshakes...an all-American anti-diet meal. It was so good, I'm salivating just thinking of it.Caleb was pretty well spent after supper, so Grandma offered to stay at the hotel room with him while the rest of us headed to the fireworks festivities. Grandpa got a great parking space near the water, and I got so many mosquito bites I likened them to the measels. We walked around the festival, where there was a live band and many different stands and what not.Finally just after 9:30 pm the fireworks started. Joshua said "I'm okay" after the first loud boom. Thereafter, he ran to Daddy's arms and held on for dear life...he was shaking with terror. We walked back to the van while he said "All done noisies." After we got back in the van, Grandpa parked in a parking lot and turned the vehicle sideways so we all saw the lovely display with elevator music in the background and the air conditioning on. Joshua then loved this beautiful display of lights, minus the noise and the crowds. I think in another year he would like it more.Aunt Erica was ready with the glow-in-the-dark bracelets and "neck-e-less" as Joshua called them. He loved these novelties! And so did she, as you can tell.We were dropped off at the hotel room just after 10:30 pm, and thankfully Grandma had already knocked Caleb out, who slept pretty well throughout the night. He woke up twice and got himself back to sleep through crying (although the next morning he felt like an ice cube, so I think he was just cold when he woke up). The night before he had refused to sleep in the hotel room in his pack 'n play and finally passed out around 4:30 am on top of me, so I got less than three hours of sleep total. I needed the rest that 4th of July night. Happy Independence Day!

A Photo Shoot & A Birthday Party

Sunday morning, we did our family photo shoot on the beach. I've seen lots of friends do family pictures by the ocean, and I've really wanted some, too. So, we decided to head to Gasparilla Island in our white shirts and khakis to get some shots. We waited over half an hour outside for Grandma & Grandpa and Aunt Erica to arrive, but thankfully the boys didn't get too dirty. I think the photos turned out really well, for the most part. I wish the boys would have looked up and smiled, but it was pretty hot and bright for them.When we arrived on the Island, Papaw rented a golf cart for the family (how the locals get around). Joshua thought this was the coolest thing ever! We all loved it - it was great to be able to see the mansions and smell, hear and feel the ocean air. Joshua repeated "look out for the trees!" as we passed low-hanging grape trees. (On a side note, he also warned the pilot of this as he was landing the plane in Baltimore.)Caleb snuggled next to his beloved Dadda. He was hot and semi-cranky, unlike the Bean that was enthralled with this new experience. This was the first picture taken - us and lil' Caleb Luke, who looked onward to the ocean rather than toward the camera. I loved this picture of Shawn & me. It was actually one of the last ones we took as we were walking back to the golf cart. Isn't the lighting from heaven just awesome? And I love the back drop.The above photo was my favorite family shot since you can see all our faces.Can you tell the sun was bright and warm? We should have had our swimsuits with us!I loved the boat in the background of this picture above.The gulf breeze is just awesome!
Aunt Erica & the boys. Great shot!Grandma & Caleb - they bonded over the week.Where's Papaw? He's taking the picture!Now the fam's all here! I liked this picture, too, once it was cropped.That afternoon, they took us for drive-through for the boys and we headed back to the hotel for naps. It took awhile to get them down, but they did sleep. Soon we got a call to see if we were ready for dinner. We ate at the Oyster Bar and looked out the windows to the water. After supper, we went back to their house to swim and then celebrate Caleb's first birthday. Aunt Erica baked and decorated this cake.And we sang to our little guy!And he opened his gifts - thank you!I loved the picture below...check out the spoon in mid-drop.Here Caleb is practicing is surfing moves...
Joshua spent the night at Grandma & Grandpa's house that night and Grandma taxied us back to our hotel room. Thus ended Sunday night... our vacation was over half way done.

A Double Date

On Monday, Aunt Erica graciously offered to watch our kiddos for us while we went out with Grandma & Grandpa. She stayed at our hotel suite while we went and toured some model homes in an upscale development called Gran Paradiso. Shawn & I had seen it the last time we were there, but they hadn't. We picked out the second house for us (in our dreams!).Meanwhile, the boys were back enjoying some time with Aunt Erica and napping. Doesn't Joshua look so old in this picture?After that, we drove around Casey Key to look at the outside of the mansions as we do on every trip. Then we headed to Sharky's on the water at Shawn's request. It was absolutely beautiful and definitely a highlight of our trip. We loved eating outside overlooking the ocean.If only these people would move out of the way...they're blocking our view! Oh, wait, that's us!We paused for a quick kiss photo opt while Shawn's mom toasted us with her tea.So, we joined her for a toast for a fun afternoon and a wonderful Aunt Erica.We headed back thereafter to grab our kiddos and took them to get on our swimsuits. Joshua & Shawn swam for a little while with the Ginders while Caleb & I waited to get wet since we were anxious to get to the Beach in the sunlight.On the way to the beach, Caleb cried and cried. We had spent enough time at the house that it was suppertime and the boys seemed to be hungry. So, we stopped at the Clock Restaurant in Venice to grab some dinner.'Til we got to the beach, the sun was pretty well gone. Grandma took Caleb on a walk in the stroller and he passed out. Erica & Shawn helped the Bean build a sand castle even though it was chilly there with the gulf breeze.He loved it! He loved the sand castle, he loved dipping his feet in the ocean, he loved getting water in the little plastic fish. He was so excited for the beach. In fact, he's asked me to go back every night since then. Hopefully another time we'll be able to get more beach time in.Pretty soon it was time to get cleaned up and head back to our hotel room to pack our belongings since we had to leave early the next morning. Once again the Bean spent the night at Grandma & Grandpa's house. He got a bath there to wash off his sandiness, and we put Caleb in the shower with Shawn to clean him up from the day.Thus ended our last real day of vacation.

Time-to-Turn-Around Tuesday

As we packed our bags, Caleb got into everything, including the fridge! He is such an explorer!Tuesday morning Shawn, Caleb & I ate breakfast down in the breakfast room and then headed back to grab our things around 9 am when Grandma & Grandpa arrived (unfortunately, Erica had to go back to work that morning).

We drove straight to the Tampa Airport, where Grandpa bought ol' blue eyes a Grover and a little Cookie Monster for Caleb Luke. Joshua has been carrying both around since we've gotten home. We ate lunch at TGIFridays and then headed to our gate to board the plane. The flight was a little turbulent due to a storm, and I was so nauscious. The boys slept for the first half, which was nice. Once we landed, they couldn't get the gear up to the door to let us out, and we had to wait on the plane an extra half hour. While we were thankful to be on the ground, we were all ready to leave. Finally, we were able to get off, get our suitcase, catch the bus back to our car (Joshua didn't mind as much this time), and we had our keys this trip!!!Because we were late, Daddy drove me straight to the Bible study without stopping. Since my friend Lisa is doing the study with me, I took Joshua along to keep her daughter Isabella company. Caleb was tired of traveling, so he went straight home with Daddy. When the Bible study was over at 8:30 pm, Grandma dropped me and the Bean off. We got both boys to bed and then I unpacked and started some laundry. We love to take vacations, but there truly is no place like home when you have little guys. Shawn was back to work the next morning, and we were back in our routine as well, as we celebrated Caleb's birthday that next day. Thanks for a great time, Grandma & Grandpa (and Erica!).

Thursday, July 9, 2009

A Busy Day for a 1-Year-Old

This picture says "I am 1"...
This morning was Caleb's 1-year-well-child check-up. We saw Dr. Kernan at Roseville Pediatrics. Here are his stats, which really surprised me:
Height: 30.25" - 66%
Weight: 21 lbs 3 oz - 26%
Head: 18.27" - 51%
They said that his growth looks normal for him. His last appointment he went to the 50th percentile for height and 25th for weight and this is following along the same curve. Now, I tend to think that Caleb looks gi-normous compared to our Bean, but he's really on the low side too! These were Joshua's stats almost exactly!!!
Everything else going on with Caleb is normal. His reaction to milk is fine; although we're welcome to try soy and see if it reduces his digestive issues. Most of all, it's just important that he gets calcium. So long as that's happening through other food sources, any amount of milk he drinks is fine. Dr. Kernan also thought it was great that he was walking and can say a few words. I also asked about him biting, and she said it will go away on its own when he's able to communicate his frustration more. In general, Caleb is healthy as a horse! Which is good because she said they've been so busy with soooo many sicknesses right now. I guess both cold symptoms and flu symptoms are on the rise for some reason, which she said is rare for summer.After Caleb's doctor's appointment, we went to JCPenney's, where I got another dip. I know that's awful, but I'm just not sure what else to call her. Needless to say, I only ordered one free picture even though there were a couple cute ones because I had no desire to give them any money... she was not friendly, didn't know what she was doing, etc. UGH! What a waste of time! Now we're back, fed and it's just about nap time. Later hopefully we'll be able to play outside. It's gorgeous - in the 70s with a slight breeze and the sun shining. :) :) :)
I'll end this post with a cute story from this morning. The boys awoke just as I was waking up, so they crawled in bed with me and snuggled as I was reading my devotions. Pretty soon I felt a 'zerbert' on my back where my jammies ended. It was Caleb! And it was ticklish! I laughed out loud. Caleb always giggles at zerberts, so I gave him a ton on his belly on the airplane when he was getting restless. Joshua tries to give them (also called raspberries by some) but he pretty much just spits all over and doesn't quite get the impact on your skin. But, Caleb grasped the concept and genuinely surprised me. The three of us laughed and laughed. My boys are silly!

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Happy 1st Birthday, Caleb Luke!

What were you doing at 4:56 on 07-08-09? We were celebrating Caleb's special day!My little love is officially walking. He has been for a week or two now. He walks like Frankenstein with his feet and arms out, but he's walking away!
Caleb has also learned how to go down the steps backwards by himself. I still stand there to make sure he gets turned around, but he does it all on his own now. I even noticed it tonight when he was trying to get off a toy. He goes backwards, as he should to be safe.Here's a good picture of his teeth...poor guy! Hopefully his permanent teeth come in much straighter than his baby teeth. If not, thank God for braces.I still think he's adorable. I love his easygoing personality (for the most part; although, we found out he's not much of a traveler yet!). He is currently in awe of Daddy and can't get enough of him, which Shawn loves.He also is an explorer, a climber and an adventurer with no fear. He will do just about anything Joshua does, and he doesn't care how high up he is, etc.I love his sweet smile. He is getting so much personality these days. His favorite game to play is peekaboo. He also loves patty cake. And while he likes to interact, he's a busy boy. He's really only cuddly at night for the most part. Otherwise, he'd rather be down playing...and getting into everything!
Mom watched the boys for an hour this morning so I could get a last-minute prescription filled for my surgery on Monday. Then we went for a walk, played in the garage, played in the office, napped (I worked out while the boys slept) and then played outside this afternoon. I made the suggestion of going to Park City tonight to Shawn since I thought Caleb might like it. Boy did he ever! While Joshua was terrified the first time we took him (around 18 months), Caleb had no fear whatsoever. He climbed right up the vegetable/fruit slide while Daddy trembled and I balanced. He did an awesome job of getting up and sliding down! He was keeping up with the big kids!He also loved this duck and climbed right up the big bed and would slide down. He loved to climb, walk and explore. Other parents there were impressed with his age and mobility, as we are!Here he's posing in the soccer ball. He and Joshua both had a blast tonight! In the picture below, they're sitting in the police car in the middle. To all you other parents out there, don't waste your money! It ate our dollar and never started, but that might have been for our benefit since we read the sign afterward that said the age minimum was 3. Whoops!When we got home, we gave Caleb a 'mini-cake' for his birthday and sang to him (which Joshua loved - he told Caleb "happy birthday!" all day).We all shared this little piece of chocolate heaven, which the boys didn't seem to like.Soon it was time for jammies and a story, rocking and singing, prayers and night-night.Happy birthday, my lil' Caleb Luke! I can't believe how much you've grown in a year. Can't I just keep you little forever???

Tuesday, July 7, 2009

To Florida & Back!

We left for Florida Friday morning, July 3 and made it home tonight, just in time for me to get dropped off at Bible study. It's late, so I'll post more stories sometime later this week...when I get the "real" pictures from Papaw's camera. Here were the few we took:

Tomorrow is Caleb's first birthday, and I'm looking forward to spending my day playing with and loving on him (and the Bean!). While it's fun to get away, there's truly no place like home. :)

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

The End of June

I really need to take more pictures - I'll have to post this entry without a single photo since I don't really have any new ones. Our date on Friday night went well. Two girls showed up at our door at 5:15 pm as I was taking the boys down to the dining room to feed them dinner. I showed the gals how to work our TV, where the toys were, etc. and then I fed the boys while waiting for Shawn to get home. Both girls seemed extraordinarily shy, but I figured with two of them, they should be okay. Shawn & I headed out in his car to El Rodeo on Manheim Pike where we met (in order of their arrival): John & Angie, Chris & Lisa and Angel & Becca. The other couple in our small group, Don & Melanie, already had plans that evening. Since Shawn & I arrived first, we sat at the bar and snacked on chips & salsa until our table was ready. It was nice being out with just adults. We had a nice time. When we got home, the boys were climbing on top of each other on the leather coffee table, both holding onto Caleb's green blankey. I saw each girl holding a boy and telling them to get down. I smiled. Boys will be boys, and the girls seemed right on top of the situation. I was pleased. The girls said the Bean was funny, and as they went to leave he said, "bye-bye, friends!" Having paid babysitters makes our date out a little more expensive, but it was well worth the time together.


Saturday morning, we did our typical yard work, including mowing etc. and I took the boys over to Grandma's pool again to swim, where my three nieces awaited our arrival. When we got back, we headed to church for the later service, where the special music was Audioslave's "Show Me How to Live." Shawn & I giggled as we pictured Joshua dancing to that song all last summer in our garage. He loves the guitars. We call it "the garage song." It made us miss our Bean (and Caleb, of course). Caleb was actually moved into the Angel Fish room for the first time - he's getting sooo big!!!


Caleb has been doing better with walking - he takes many steps in a row before getting down and crawling and he can stand up on his own without holding onto anything. It's amazing to see what a difference even a week can make! Joshua, on the other hand, has taken two steps backward with potty training. He was doing really well, but as we get busy and don't get him to the potty all the time, he doesn't tell us, can't hold it, etc. We've had quite a few accidents. I absolutely hate cleaning poo-poo out of big boy undies. He does okay if he's just wearing undies, but it seems as if adding the shorts on top makes him think he's in diapers again. I know it's a process, but he's not enjoying the potty as much as he once was. I don't know if the novelty has worn off or if we've not been as consistent as we need to be or if he sees our disappointment when he doesn't make it and doesn't want to try again or all of the above. Please, Lord, help us all!


On Sunday, we took a nap and afterward (I was the first one awake) I asked Shawn if he was okay with my taking a jog. It just sounded good - I needed a little break from the workout DVD I've been doing. I ran the whole way from our house to the park and back without stopping. I was impressed - God is good, and I can tell that I'm getting in better shape than I once was (although, I have a ways to go!). That afternoon, the heavens let loose with more rain so we didn't get to go swimming. Shawn went to the driving range with his brother, and the kids & I played at Grandma's for awhile.

The rest of this week we've done some shopping, some playing, etc. The boys & Daddy were playing on the floor last night, and Caleb was copying every move Joshua did. It was amusing to watch as I was making a packing list and starting to gather the things we'll need for our trip. Yesterday Shawn booked our airplane tickets to go down to Florida. We'll be there Friday through Tuesday, which is over Independence Day. We're excited to see the fireworks, go swimming, see the beach and of course spend time with Grandma & Grandpa Ginder and Aunt Erica. Speaking of which, I should get back to packing!!!

Celebrating Joshua's First Two Years of Life

The Second Year
The First Year