Friday, October 9, 2009

A 'Field Trip' at Preschool

On Wednesday, Joshua's preschool had an 'in-house field trip' and parents were invited to come to be with their kiddos. I was SO excited to see the Bean in action at preschool. Nonie agreed to stay with Caleb at our house in the morning and then take the boys that afternoon to her house while I went to school.
When we first got there, Joshua immediately started playing with the other children in the bean table. I thought this was a clever idea until I saw the mess that some of the kiddos made with it! They scooped beans into cups and dumped and poured and had a blast. The beans were all different shapes, colors and sizes. This was the 'sensory' table of the week. I told the teachers how neat I thought it was and they commented that it was great...until one child decided to stick a bunch of beans in his ears. Aaaaah!!! The teacher said she put a band-aid over his ears and told his mom when he got picked up. I laughed and laughed at the thought (then prayed that God would help my kids keep from ever sticking things where they shouldn't be).
Next after all the children were there, it was time for the 'field trip.' I was genuinely shocked that only one other mom stayed for the field trip. Some moms have other kids they're running to school or watching at home and sometimes it's grandparents that bring or pick-up the kiddos, but I couldn't believe that parents would miss the opportunity to be with their kids for any reason. I'm wondering if some parents don't bother to read the newsletter that's sent home. Anyway, here are the kids in their coats (which two kids were missing and had to go get one from the lost-n-found area since it was an extremely chilly morning with the wind). The preschool has all sorts of lines taped down on the floor, which the teacher said is extremely helpful in getting the children to line up and stay in order. They go straight to the red line then to the blue or green line to get outside.
One little boy cried and cried that we were leaving the room...he cries at everything and seems really nervous - poor guy! Another child cried when we got outside and her hair was blowing in her face. I was so amused by all the little ones! Mrs. Ford asked each child to grab another child's hand and assigned buddies for the day. Joshua was asked to hold Liam's hand, and they both did a great job of holding on to each other. Then when Joshua wanted to hold my hand, somehow I ended up with Liam's, too. I also had two other kids try to hold my hands throughout the day. It was cute.Our first stop was to see the police car. Officer Johns put the lights and sirens on and told them that if they were ever lost, try to find someone in her uniform and they would help find mommy & daddy. The kids were bored after two seconds (and so was the teacher, who confessed to me that she has extreme ADD), so we moved on.
Joshua's teacher Mrs. Ford is in green in the above picture, and here is a group shot of his class along with another class outside watching the brief demonstration.
Next we went to see the ambulance. This guy didn't really have anything to say except that he helps people who are sick. One little girl tried to climb up on the bed and the teacher said it was time to go in.We had passed the playground on the way outside, and even though it was a little wet from the rain that had happened in the morning, the teacher said the children could play for a little while. They all loved it!It was finally time to head back inside. The other mom that had come along had to leave to take a birthday treat to her kindergarden son's class. I asked the teacher whether she would prefer I stay or go, telling her either one was fine with me and she offered to let me stay and enjoy the morning. The first thing Joshua did was sit down at a table, and looking at leaves in the middle, try to draw one with his crayon. This was the finished product:A little girl Brooke had been asking to paint ever since she got to preschool. Eventually, Mrs. Ford got out the construction paper and paint and put an old adult male shirt on two children so they could paint back-to-back at the easel. Poor Brooke missed the first round as two other children jumped at the chance. Joshua also was sad he didn't get to go first, but he went the next round. He LOVED the paintbrush and the opportunity to paint this way.I loved his little face...so excited!and so cute!The teacher's aide took over at the painting station while Mrs. Ford got out another craft at a different table. They are definitely good at keeping things moving. The painting lasted for all of ten seconds. The kids enjoyed their time there, but they wanted to keep moving quickly. I think that's where I fall short at home. When I get out a craft, I want him to take more than a moment to enjoy all the work I've put into it. But, realistically with his attention span, that's not going to be the case.So, Joshua headed over to be with his friend Ethan, who's pictured below. This child is WILD! He was so aggressive and full of energy and not really listening to the teacher that I thought to myself "why, Joshua, do you want to be with him and follow every single move that he does?" You can tell the Bean really looks up to him (literally, since this boy is the tallest in the class). But, I did notice that the teacher calls on him a lot, and Ethan is super sharp and vocal. He willingly volunteers answers in class. Whereas Joshua knows the answers, he isn't as eager to volunteer. So, I think that between him being big, being rowdy and being smart, Joshua clung to him like super glue.The craft that they were working on was about creation...God creating the plants and the trees. First, they colored the paper with green crayons (where Ethan started banging the crayon and Joshua followed suit...and both crayons broke. I scolded Joshua and the teacher told Ethan she was not at all happy with his behavior this day...so maybe he's not normally that wound up???). Next, they stuck little brown rectangles to the paper with a glue stick. The only instruction was that they shouldn't cover up the words of the Bible verse. Finally, they stuck little red squares to the paper. These were supposed to be apple trees...they learned after everything was already stuck. They didn't care.I confessed to the teacher that we've never used glue at our house, and she said glue sticks are key or using Elmer's in a bottle cap with a q-tip. Joshua had to be shown how to even use the glue to get the papers to stick. Here was his finished product:After the crafts, while the other children finished up theirs since they took turns two-at-a-time at the painting station and three-to-four-at-a-time at the apple tree station, Joshua and some of the other boys played at the train station. When Ethan would loudly say "choo choo!", Joshua would follow suit. The other little guy in the picture is named Isaiah. This kid said a lot of "not nice things" according to Joshua's teachers, and I noticed he was constantly pushing, pulling, etc. on other children. The teacher would say "hands on your head" or "hands on your belly" which the kids thought was funny but that kept them from putting their hands on other children.Soon it was time to clean up all the toys. Every train and every track went away. I helped Mrs. Hilton clean up the entire mess of Beans and the kids put every toy away that was out. Then they all got onto the circle mat. Mrs. Ford started by adding a day to her calendar on the wall. Then they counted the days up to seven. Next, she went over the numbers 1,2,3 and shapes. I was surprised that they were just learning these things since Joshua's known them for awhile. But then she read a couple books, and he was thrilled. She asked questions throughout them, and I was surprised that Joshua didn't volunteer more. If someone else said the answer, he would stay quiet. There were a few times, though, that he did volunteer a correct answer when no one else did. Mrs. Ford said it's normal at this age to be more shy in a group setting. That's why preschool is good to get them used to the atmosphere.After the stories, it was snack time. One little girl pulled her pants down in the middle of the room and the teachers had to remind her to go potty so she pulled them back up. We marched all the kids into the big bathroom down the hall to wash their hands, and I helped them climb onto the stools and get soap, etc. Then we came back to the classroom and sang a prayer and the kiddos ate goldfish and drank out of juic boxes that kept overflowing. Joshua did amazingly well with his, though, and thankfully it wasn't a gusher.After the kids finished their heaping mound of goldfish, it was time to go outside again to talk about Creation. Only the teachers got busy and ran out of time. So, the kids enjoyed playing. Mrs. Ford said chaos works in her life, so this age is great for her. Mrs. Hilton is more like me - organized, structured and clean. So they are a good balance. Mrs. Ford reminded me that preschool is great for getting Joshua dirty and playing with things he wouldn't be allowed to at home. Yes, it's true. Then she commented on how nicely he's always dressed...haaa!!!! Yes, I like him to look good, and I notice that he's often dirty when he comes home. We laughed. It was good to get to know her better because I think she's disorganized, but that may be a good thing for this environment. The kids love her. In fact, one little girl went up to her during story time and said "Mrs. Ford, I love you." It was cute.In the picture above, Joshua is playing in a pile of dirt and stones. Eeek! And he's loving every minute of it. She explained that stones are way better than sand for outdoor fun.It was soon time to go inside and leave for the day. So, Mrs. Ford asked everyone to go to the wall and line up so they could count heads. Here's Joshua's little friend again as the Bean is patiently waiting by the wall.After we got home, we took Nonie out to lunch at Friendly's. She took the boys back to Reading with her and it was time for me to go to class already! I'm so glad that I teach college kids rather than 3-year-olds. As much fun as I had watching the little ones, I wouldn't want to be there every day. But, it was great to be with Joshua at preschool one day and see what he experiences. His preschool officially has a case of H1N1, so we're praying for his health and safety this school year. Please join us in praying for him, too!

The Manheim Farm Days

Tuesday night when Shawn got home from work, I suggested we go to the Manheim Farm Days after seeing on a friend's facebook post that it was happening this week. He agreed, and away we went. The first stop was to grab some dinner there. And, who did we see working at the French Fries stand but Grandma Good! She seemed thrilled to see Shawn & the kiddos. :) We ate dinner under the 'big tent' which Joshua loved, and then I splurged for funnel cake, which the Bean highly enjoyed. From there we went to check out the animals. The first part was the cows, where both kids 'mooed' to their new friends. Then a cow started to pee, and Joshua was horrified. He kept telling us that the cow didn't make it to the potty...haaaa!!!
Joshua rode in our stroller like a big boy, standing up...finally!!! I found this treasure cheap on Craig's List, thinking the Bean would enjoy being able to get in and out himself but for the longest time he only wanted to sit. Now he's enjoying standing, too.
The next area we came to was all the babies. We saw baby piggies getting their dinner from their mama, which I thought was one of the cutest things we saw that night. This picture doesn't even do it justice.Then we saw a baby calf...Followed by a baby Caleb... my poor little guy would have LOVED to have gotten down to run around and explore, but we kept him in the stroller for two reasons. One, he loves to touch everything and everything was dirty and not edible; and two (most importantly) the place was a zoo. There were sooo many people and it was bumper-to-bumper (or shoulder-to-shoulder) and Caleb likes to wander. So, rather than risk him getting stepped on or running off, we figured the stroller was a safer option.
Next Joshua got to pet the baby bunnies and see some chicks that had just hatched. He LOVED this area and said that the bunnies felt "NICE!"We saw goats, pigs, sheep, more cows and tractors, etc. I think Joshua really enjoyed it.But, as much as Joshua was having fun, Caleb was tired. And tired of sitting. I think he would have really liked it if he was given freedom to roam, but it wasn't really the time or place with how crowded it was.Since it was their bedtime, we headed out. On the way to our car, we saw the decorated pumpkins (one of my personal favorite parts of this show), and the gigantic pumpkins, etc which was really impressive to Joshua. He couldn't get over how BIG the pumpkin was!
So, we enjoyed some unhealthy fair food and walking around as a fam before calling it a night since the Bean had preschool in the morning.

Thursday, October 8, 2009

Last Week

On Friday, October 2, our babysitter Miranda came at 5:45 pm and Shawn & I left to pick up my car from being inspected (which it didn't need anything, praise God!!!). Afterward, we dropped off my ride at the house and headed to First Friday in Lancaster. We stopped by City Gate Lancaster to see some folks we knew and check out the artwork, then we dined at Prince Street Cafe again. It was wonderful! We chatted away and enjoyed the atmosphere. Then we walked the streets of the city until we felt a few drops and knew we'd better start heading back to the car. Thankfully the rain held off the several blocks we needed to walk until we were in the warm car with heated seats. It was a wonderful date night. The boys also enjoyed their time, and Miranda took them to the playground at the school behind our house.
Here's Joshua "helping" Caleb put on his Crocs. Joshua put his own on with no problems, then he got the chair and started to help Caleb, much to my amusement. I had to grab the camera!

On Saturday, I got my hair done first thing in the morning. Did I mention how much I like my new hairdresser? After I got home, Shawn left to go to a card show with his brother and I took the boys shopping with me & my mom. Joshua was NOT happy, so we weren't gone very long. That afternoon, it was a gorgeous day and Shawn gave me time to go for a jog to the park. It was lovely! When I got home, I volunteered to mow the lawn and let Shawn have more time with the boys. For the first time, he agreed to let me do the whole thing. I enjoyed it, other than forgetting to change my sneakers, which are now green. Dangit!
Here's Joshua riding in his new 'special' car that we bought off Craig's List for $5. Caleb & Joshua both loved the one car we had, so we decided to buy another one so they could each have their own.

Sunday I met some friends from college at King of Prussia for lunch at the Cheesecake Factory. Suz & Carolyn live in Jersey, so this was the half way point for us. I hadn't seen Carolyn or Jen for over eight years! It was fun catching up and eating our delicious lunch. I wish I had remembered to take out my camera while I was there. I didn't really think about how old we were until Carolyn said "See you when we're 40!" Oh my God! That's really how quickly it goes!!!
That afternoon I went for another run and then we enjoyed some time together as a family. Monday was Joshua's preschool, and we were asked to bring in helmets so they could ride tricycles there. Only two of us moms remembered, so Joshua was one of the only kids who was allowed to ride the bikes. Mrs. Hilton said he enjoyed it for a little while but then wanted to play with the other kids. Shawn had started teaching him how to pedal over the weekend, and he was really getting the hang of it!
Here is Joshua's mum in full bloom.

Mom watched the boys thereafter while I went to school. That night, WLAN FM97 Radio Personality Damian Rhodes was a special speaker during my advertising classes. I had one communications class with him while I was in school at MU, and I remembered him since he was already on the radio at the time (Damian Rhodes is not his real name). I emailed him and asked if he would be willing to come back to campus and share his experience with advertising and radio, and surprisingly he agreed. He did a fantastic job and was really well prepared, having created spots to share with folks, explaining the process of production, talking about how to creatively think outside the box for script creation, speaking about how he got started in radio, and answering a bunch of questions. It was really interesting, even for me, as I learned some new things about the industry. He was sooo nice, and I was honored that he would come in and waste his afternoon and evening in my classes. The students loved it, and I was appreciative.

Joshua's Artwork

Here's the pumpkin Joshua decorated (on the right) at Grant's birthday party. Joshua's first artwork after the necklace was for "Black Day" when he dressed in black. This lovely treasure was stuck in his mail slot, so at first I didn't see it and thought he hadn't participated that day... instead, he had made a lovely piece for us full of sticky glue.

Next was white day at preschool...here's the painting he created. This week they learned that God created night and day, light and darkness. Joshua told me when I asked him what he was learning that "God turned on the lights." Yep, that about sums it up!Here was Joshua's Blue Artwork...this was positively wet with glue when we were handed this treasure. So, Caleb and I wore some glue on the way home from preschool. This one was created on blue day, of course. I think the theme for the above artwork was clouds since the following preschool day was another blue day and Joshua used scissors for the first time to cut the clouds in the picture below this one. He also learned that God created the heavens and the earth, so the clouds represent heaven and the upcoming artwork represents the earth.I loved the following piece, which has two sides and we can hang. Here are the heavens and the earth...Next it was red day. Here is his paint job for that day.And yesterday Joshua was asked to color a picture of a leaf with the leaves in the middle of the table for them to look at and then draw on their paper with crayon. Here was his finished product:

While he may not be Picassa, I LOVE his artwork and am a proud momma. He's doing a fantastic job at preschool! :)

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

EEG - Home Free!

Monday night we kept Caleb up obnoxiously late (in fact, Daddy had him watch football with him while I passed out) and then Caleb was up off and on overnight by himself. He hadn't napped earlier in the day and was just exhausted. But, I think God kept him awake. He was up at 5 am and woke me up.
We went as a family to the second floor Neuro-something unit on the Health Campus to get his test done. I didn't realize that for an EEG they had to put 24-electrodes on his head. He cried the entire time that she was setting him up - not in pain, but this cry was an "I'm offended she's touching my head with sticky stuff" kind of cry. It took all my strength to keep his hands from pulling them off. Then, after she wrapped his head in gauze, she turned on the machines. One monitored him via a video camera. When I asked why, the tech told me that this records the actual seizure, should any occur. WOW! Okay! She also had the brain waves being monitored and then another apparatus that flashed a bunch of light. She explained that the lights can sometimes trigger an episode. Caleb, on the other hand, thought the lights were cool.
He wanted to play. He started jumping up and down and tried to get down and again, my arms were worn out with trying to keep him as still as I could. But, she said he was okay and they obviously got what they needed since the pediatrician called me that afternoon and said the EEG came back normal. I wish I would have gotten a picture of little Caleb Luke all decked out in his head gear! He was ADORABLE!

We came home and he crashed for a nap. Later that afternoon I gave both boys a bath so I could wash all that sticky junk out of his hair.
Dr. Tifft told me that he thinks I should keep the appointment with the Pediatric Neurologist for now and continue to monitor Caleb's behavior. If he rolls his eyes again, we should definitely go in. If he doesn't, we will "talk" and see if we should cancel. But, he thinks this is a very good sign.

Praise GOD!

Sunday, October 4, 2009

EEG Scheduled

Lil' Caleb Luke will go in to the Neuro-something unit this Tuesday morning for an EEG, which looks at his brain waves to see if there's anything indicating that his eye rolling episodes are seizures. I'm so thankful we have such amazing medical care right here in Lancaster County! This test will be done at the Health Campus that's only about five minutes from our house.

They won't sedate him since he's a little guy, so they asked me to keep him up as much as possible the night before so he's good and tired and passes out. They said they get more accurate results when the patient is sleeping. Please pray that I can stay awake to keep him up and that he sleeps for his test! Also pray that everything is normal and that he's okay. We have an appointment with a Pediatric Neurologist that I'd love to cancel if everything looks good. I have peace that he's okay, but I always want to do whatever is necessary to make sure these little guys are taken care of - I love them soooo much!

While you're reading this, please take a moment and say a prayer for Caleb (and Joshua! It never hurts!). I'll keep you updated on what we find out.

The following link is to a video with a song I used to sing over Joshua when he was fighting for his life in the NICU. While I don't think this situation is nearly as serious, the song came to mind and I thought I would share. It's called "He's My Son" by Mark Schultz.
http://www.tangle.com/view_video.php?viewkey=584cfcaf08fd7c751a05&sp=1

Friday, October 2, 2009

Wake Me Up When September Ends

The title of this post was from a song Shawn likes. September is officially over. Last Friday night, I met Becca, Angie & Melanie at the Olive Garden for girl's night out (Lisa, the other gal in our small group, stayed home to celebrate her hubby's birthday) in honor of Melanie and her baby. We had a fun time! I looked up the calories of their food before going, and I couldn't believe that a bowl of soup there is only 130 calories! I was thrilled!


Saturday was Lake Tobias, as I posted about already, and Sunday we went to LHOP to church in the morning in hopes of seeing some old friends. That afternoon Shawn went to his friend Mike's house to watch the football game and had a nice time. Later that night, we went to his nephew Grant's birthday party. The kids painted pumpkins, which was cute. We had fun.


Monday Joshua had preschool, and I gave two exams that evening. Mom watched the boys for me until Shawn came home, which the boys always enjoy. Tuesday morning, Aunt Missy visited to give Joshua his belated birthday gift. He loved the games!

That evening, I had a dentist appointment (no cavaties, yeah!) and then we went out on a date to the Prince Street Cafe. Our babysitter watched the boys while I was at the dentist, and Shawn said he came home and they were outside playing. Miranda was teaching them how to roll down a hill. He started dinner for them, and she offered to finish when I got home. He picked the venue, and it was a cute little place. I knew several folks there, including some former and current students. The food was delicious, the drinks were amazing (hot chai is my favorite!), and the company was out of this world. We had a really nice time. When I took Miranda home, she told me that she's adjusting to a new school, Lancaster Catholic High. She said she's agnostic and she liked her old school Manheim Township better, but her mom thought this would be a better choice for her. Please pray for her - specifically that she would come to know the Lord. I think she's a great, responsible young lady, and I can't imagine going through life without knowing Jesus!


Wednesday was preschool again - this week was "blue" week and they did lots of artwork from pasting pieces of blue paper to look like clouds to cutting circles. They are also learning about creation this week, and I asked Joshua about what he was learning in school. He told me "God turned on the lights." Haaa!!! I said, "Yes, and it was GOOD!" Hee hee. That kiddo makes me laugh all the time. Nonie watched the boys at our house while I had class that afternoon and evening until Shawn got home. Thankfully I was able to finish grading papers during my office hours. This coming Monday I have a special speaker coming to class that I'm excited about.


Yesterday was Joshua's doctor's appointment, and last night my friend Lisa came over and we started a new Bible study by Beth Moore called "When Godly People Do Ungodly Things." I'm looking forward to learning more! Well, I should run. More soon!

Joshua's 3-year well-check

Yesterday, Joshua had his 3-year well-child check-up. His stats are
Height: 37.25" - 35%
Weight (with clothes on): 29 lbs 8 oz - 25%
I couldn't believe he weighed so much! Awesome! At three, he's three feet tall and weighs almost thirty pounds. :)

I asked a ton of questions, as usual, and got a couple surprising answers and other not-so-surprising answers. The one that concerned me the most was that they think Joshua is struggling with constipation. He's basically potty trained to put his 'water' in the potty but refuses to put his poo-poo in there. But, he's not consistently having a bowel movement and has gone as much as five days in between. They told me to give him juice (that's the first time I've ever heard someone suggest sugar water!) and also 'p' fruits, as well as two teaspoons of fiber a day to get him regulated. Dr. Krak said that Joshua won't potty train when he's having difficulty going. Once we get him regular, it shouldn't be a problem. Okay! I'll take it! No wonder the poor guy has been telling us he has an ouchy belly...maybe it really does hurt!
They also gave him a flu shot. He was so offended - he told me that the girls stabbed him. He called it his ouchy arm and prayed for it and then asked me to pray for it. I think he's feeling better today, though. After his shot, they gave him a little sticker in the shape of a needle that said "I Was Brave." So cute!
Dr. Krak also told me to wait on giving him the pulmocort lung strengthening medicine until after Joshua has another asthma attack. He called his condition "stable" and said we would monitor in upcoming weeks. He did recommend, however, with Joshua's history that we get the swine flu vaccine as soon as it's available.

This is also the age we should talk about strangers, I read on the paperwork they sent home. Everything else I would say we're already doing. And, since they aren't concerned at all about Joshua's weight, Dr. Krak said it's important to offer him one thing - whatever we're eating - and he'll eat it if he's hungry. If he's not hungry, don't force it, but if he is hungry we should be encouraging healthy eating habits. We've been caving to give him whatever he'll eat in hopes that he'll get enough calories. But, today he ate like a champ, so I'd say that he does eat when he's hungry.